A private dating space for people living with HIV

Connection starts
with trust.

Meet people who understand the importance of privacy, respect and honest connection. Ourside keeps discovery in your hands from the first swipe.

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Your email is for your account. Your phone number is never a discovery tool.
Built around privacy

Everything you need to meet people without feeling exposed.

Ourside borrows the simplicity of modern dating apps and puts privacy controls much closer to the experience.

Private discovery
Your profile is yours to reveal.
Mutual photos
Photos can stay protected until trust is mutual.
Real connection
Swipe, match, chat and decide what comes next.
Discovery that feels familiar

Find people nearby, on your terms.

Choose an age range, set a distance and control how much of your profile is visible. Ourside can use an approximate location for matching without turning your exact location into part of your profile.

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Someone who gets it.Private profile · Approx. distance · Relationship goals
Safety is part of the product

Stay in control from match to message.

Block, unmatch, report and control visibility without digging through a complicated interface.

Privacy controls

Choose what people can see and whether your profile appears in discovery.

Protected photos

Store an original and a server-generated blurred version so private images are not simply hidden with CSS.

Block and report

Remove someone from your experience and send a report when something crosses a line.

Personal controls

Manage discovery, distance, age range, visibility and privacy from one settings area.

When you are ready

Meet someone who understands.

Create your Ourside profile and decide how much you want to share.

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